valentine’s day is stupid

I am not a festive person. I do not come from festive people.

As such, I do not own colorful sweaters, necklaces that light up like Christmas tree lights or candy cane earrings.

It used to bum my children out that I didn’t want to create a cemetery in our front yard for Halloween or string twinkly lights in the front bushes in December. Isn’t it enough I buy costumes and put up a tree? Can’t they be happy with a wreath?


But it’s the make-believe holidays that make me crazy. Mother’s Day. Father’s Day. Valentine’s Day.

These are the phony holidays created solely to get you to spend money on things that nobody needs, like Barbie Pez and ties.

So, imagine my chagrin when I found myself last night at Target searching for Valentine’s Day goodies for my two kids still living at home.

Nothing says “I’m a horrible procrastinator” like standing in the seasonal aisle at Target at 5:30 the night before Valentine’s Day, huddled with all the other working moms and clueless dads in front of the few remaining pink stuffed animals and Necco Wafers that all the organized parents hadn’t already scooped up last week. It was like landing on the Island of Misfit Toys: Valentine’s Edition.

But there I stood, thinking, “This is stupid,” while one young mom kept telling her preschooler he was a brat and another mom, who had three little kids hanging out of her shopping cart, employing the “f” word to stop the all their bickering. Right there next to the bags of miniature Snickers bars.

This was obviously not a happy time of day to be at Target (and man, I am usually really happy to be at Target).

Of course at this point, there is not one box of Valentine cards to be found for my 10-year-old son to bring to school the next day. No Dora. No Thomas the Tank Engine. Nothing.

I was talking to my younger sister, who is  like 14 years younger than me and has one toddler, on the phone while casing the joint and reported my findings.

“Go on Pinterest!” she says, and starts describing excitedly something she saw where I’d take my son’s picture holding out his arms and print it out and tape a lollipop to it. And I’m thinking, “Okay, I can do this,” and grabbed one of the remaining bags of lollipops from a bottom shelf.

I turned the corner and ran into a big display of Fun Dip cards that are pretty much the paper pouches containing the sugary dip and weird candy stick that kids can write classmates’ names on. I reached my hand out and hesitated for about two seconds, remembering then that you pretty much can’t send any food items into school anymore due to allergy restrictions, and then grabbed it anyway.

I’ll take contraband over crafting, all day long.


11 thoughts on “valentine’s day is stupid

  1. So it’s you I have to blame for having to get the vacuum out to clean up all this fluorescent blue powder!

  2. I am now thoroughly convinced that we must have been twins separated at birth. I was in CVS tonight at 5:00 elbowing my way between way too many people looking for a non-existent “Mom and Dad” card. In desperation I almost bought them a Spanish language card since that was all that was left but settled on a generic “So Happy Together” card tucked behind some unmatched envelopes. I would have readily settled on the Barbie Pez.

  3. I love reading your blog! You think so much like me! I would love to visit with you! Coffee of drinks! Kids could play!

  4. I dread making Valentines. I invited one of my daughter’s classmates over the other day bc we were making Valentines. God bless her, that girl was like a Valentine making factory. for everyone one my kids made, she made three. I never imagined a 6 yr old would be the one to save the day but I’m inviting her over next time we need to write thank you notes our decorate the tree.

  5. I have always hated Valentine’s Day – don’t ask why – too much to do with watching other college classmates at the all women’s college I attended get lots of flowers while I sat in the dorm t.v. room pretending not to notice…Anyway I thoroughly enjoy this and all of your blogs.

  6. See, your problem is that you’re approaching this all wrong. Valentine’s Day is not a holiday. It’s simply a vehicle to the real holiday, which is today. Today it’s Half Price Chocolate Day!

    Don’t get sucked in by the pink and red tidal wave…just wait it out until the 15th. =)

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